Listen Listen Listen Listen

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First, learn to listen to parents.  An important part of the Chinese ethical ideals is filial piety. Parenting skills, education, societal formation and many other factors which couldn’t be squeezed into here due to their lengthy elaboration are keys to preserving the foundation of love, devotion and obedience. Listening is an art which is easy yet difficult to acquire and more difficult to maintain. The art of teaching is always changing and therefore there will be no listening if teaching is not upgraded. On many occasions and repeatedly, things are taken for granted.  Talking at great length is not equal to great teaching. Tensions gradually build up waiting to burst and unwind. Only exceptional listener would be able to understand an unchanging teaching.

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Next, learn to listen to your fellow brothers and sisters. Due to different times, all fellow brothers and sisters are not identically the same although they may share many similar and common characteristics. In fact, listen to how love can at times be influenced by greed and wisdom instead of power, fortune and position. Depending on the circumstances,  and not destroying the foundation of love, devotion and obedience, greed create a giver a loser. Only when the loser think that losing is winning, listening is blurred. Brotherhoods and sisterhoods is born from the source of ‘love’ but through desires, listening skills degraded. It is like a tree wanting the sun all by itself and the clouds exacting payment from the grasses.

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Maturely learn to listen to your spouse to moderate continued listening to parents and to preserve brotherhoods and sisterhoods. Artful listening is a matured mode to eradicate uncongenial thoughts between two or more different persons. It normal and healthy that thoughts are uncongenial as such is the basic of try and error for improvement but unmanageable extremist differences lead to deterioration of the good fundamentals for a good bond. Listening powered by certain degree of patience is a recipe for reducing egoistic instinct of self which served as a motivation for the other person to confide with special one. Listening is union for both and it is the continuous refilling of the union that keep them bonded.

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Completing the cycle of listening include an extraordinary listening to the young players of the future as they have a sense of humiliation as well as a sense of honour. The young would always behaves in the best way he could so that other people admire and provide due regards to him. Silence listening exist frequently for them and when the ‘silence’ could be deciphered, the young guy or gals behaves honourably and veers away from doing wrong and moves towards the right path. The skills of listening to the young which we inherited from our peers may not be applicable as global changes take place rapidly and quickly. The young would assimilate the changes faster than the old and therefore, it is only wise to listen to changes than stillness except the unchangeable eight values of the cultural treasury of the Chinese ethical ideals like filial piety, kindness, integrity, honour, loyalty, love, righteousness and  propriety.