Bridal Chambers of the Baba's
An important aspect of the Baba wedding is the preparation
for the bridal chamber , which are in two parts - the actual decoration as well
as the blessing ,of the bridal bed itself . All the items connected to the chambers
are changed for new ones. The bed sheets, mattress , curtains ,carpet , embroidered
, tapestry , and bed hangings will be painstakingly prepared. Sweet-smelling
flower, setanggi (local incense) and
finely sliced pandan leaves will be placed all around the bridal chambers
The bridal bed on display is called the Ranjang Tok San, and will be a part of the bridal chambers . The
bed itself is not a single piece but is made of two separate beds , placed
close together . The front is a bench-like bed , with a double bed attached to it . Both beds will be elaborately
decorated with sillk curtains and embroidered hangings ,luxurious mattress and
pillows in silver and gold- plated covers .Two red charis covered with
embroidered velvet cloth will be placed in front of the bed. The chairs and
bench are for the couple to have a conversation, sometimes taking days before
touching each other.
Cleaning the bridal bed is a symbolic ritual to ask for
wealth, longevity and fertility. A comb of banana, some lemongrass leaves and
yam are placed in an earthen pot under the bed together with a container of
lighted setanggi joss sticks on a bed
of sand. Then, the incense will be lighted in the bridal chambers, which will
now be guarded every day.
The ‘cleansing’ and blessing of the chambers will take place
on a chosen day and time, and it is performed by a boy who will roll on the bed
back and forth three times. After this, the chambers are closely guarded to
prevent anyone or anything considered unclean from entering it until the
wedding couple enters it.
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